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	<title>Comments on: Transactional Analysis, Freud, and the Death of the Ego</title>
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		<title>By: Ted</title>
		<link>http://www.reclusland.com/compass/2009/06/12/transactional-analysis/comment-page-1/#comment-8114</link>
		<dc:creator>Ted</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Feb 2010 23:12:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Its funny that after I typed this I went to Barnes and Noble found a book about Grey Aliens by a guy named Nigel Kerner that outlines this same premise in great detail. 

I had had run across a similar idea, reading up on Magick and Alchemy about fallen angels &quot;giving us their minds&quot;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Its funny that after I typed this I went to Barnes and Noble found a book about Grey Aliens by a guy named Nigel Kerner that outlines this same premise in great detail. </p>
<p>I had had run across a similar idea, reading up on Magick and Alchemy about fallen angels &#8220;giving us their minds&#8221;</p>
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		<title>By: Ian</title>
		<link>http://www.reclusland.com/compass/2009/06/12/transactional-analysis/comment-page-1/#comment-8108</link>
		<dc:creator>Ian</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Feb 2010 17:35:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.gurdjieff-legacy.org/wpp/present.htm&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;The chatter stops. Yes, errant thoughts or feelings may arise, but they are given no attention, are immediately assimilated. We don&#039;t say &quot;I&quot; to them, we &quot;eat&quot; them. They are food. If we don&#039;t, they eat us, and we are taken down into the person again; we slip back into the static world of history, heroes and villains. &lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.gurdjieff-legacy.org/wpp/present.htm" rel="nofollow">The chatter stops. Yes, errant thoughts or feelings may arise, but they are given no attention, are immediately assimilated. We don&#8217;t say &#8220;I&#8221; to them, we &#8220;eat&#8221; them. They are food. If we don&#8217;t, they eat us, and we are taken down into the person again; we slip back into the static world of history, heroes and villains. </a></p>
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		<title>By: Ian</title>
		<link>http://www.reclusland.com/compass/2009/06/12/transactional-analysis/comment-page-1/#comment-8107</link>
		<dc:creator>Ian</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Feb 2010 16:47:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think that kind of idea can work on many levels.  If nothing else, the left brain language center is certainly a more cosmic, heavenly, removed perspective.  The sense of self as separate from reality, the ego as something in need of constant feeding (as a closed system, its subject to entropy), culture as something somehow separate from nature.  On the metaphorical plane, it makes for quite a powerful catchall.

But as for taking it literally, I&#039;d have to say its not for me.  It creates too much paranoia and anxiety to keep that in my reality tunnel.  ;)

My preferred way of looking at it is something that needs developing, but which ultimately we need to step away from and reintegrate that sense of ego back into the sense of connection.  We are god&#039;s way of developing &quot;me&quot; organs.  The ego is only a wrong turn if we don&#039;t see it as a wave that&#039;s reached its peak on one side and is now returning to the other.

(I use ego in this comment to mean sense of a separate self, not in the Freudian sense of the ego)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think that kind of idea can work on many levels.  If nothing else, the left brain language center is certainly a more cosmic, heavenly, removed perspective.  The sense of self as separate from reality, the ego as something in need of constant feeding (as a closed system, its subject to entropy), culture as something somehow separate from nature.  On the metaphorical plane, it makes for quite a powerful catchall.</p>
<p>But as for taking it literally, I&#8217;d have to say its not for me.  It creates too much paranoia and anxiety to keep that in my reality tunnel.  ;)</p>
<p>My preferred way of looking at it is something that needs developing, but which ultimately we need to step away from and reintegrate that sense of ego back into the sense of connection.  We are god&#8217;s way of developing &#8220;me&#8221; organs.  The ego is only a wrong turn if we don&#8217;t see it as a wave that&#8217;s reached its peak on one side and is now returning to the other.</p>
<p>(I use ego in this comment to mean sense of a separate self, not in the Freudian sense of the ego)</p>
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		<title>By: Ted</title>
		<link>http://www.reclusland.com/compass/2009/06/12/transactional-analysis/comment-page-1/#comment-8105</link>
		<dc:creator>Ted</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Feb 2010 16:05:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think our rational minds, our left brain inner dialogue, language centers, symbolic culture, ego complex, etc. was seeded by an alien, race, fallen angels...something like that. 

Its like farming. Domestication. We are a food source. We weren&#039;t a food source as primates, so they gave us some stuff to develop our consciousness in order to feed on it.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think our rational minds, our left brain inner dialogue, language centers, symbolic culture, ego complex, etc. was seeded by an alien, race, fallen angels&#8230;something like that. </p>
<p>Its like farming. Domestication. We are a food source. We weren&#8217;t a food source as primates, so they gave us some stuff to develop our consciousness in order to feed on it.</p>
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		<title>By: Ian</title>
		<link>http://www.reclusland.com/compass/2009/06/12/transactional-analysis/comment-page-1/#comment-8104</link>
		<dc:creator>Ian</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Feb 2010 15:41:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I guess because the idea that my rational consciousness is &lt;em&gt;absolutely&lt;/em&gt; sealed away from the root of my soul makes me very angry.  It seems to be a fairly accurate description of a problem I&#039;ve been struggling with most of my life.  Since I was a kid, I sort of automatically absorbed an acceptance of this, but now as an adult, I both intuit and (more or less) logically can figure out that this is NOT true.  And it makes me angry that I have all this previous programming that I have to break through in order to experience something that I &lt;em&gt;know&lt;/em&gt; to already be true.

The anger gives rise to a highly emotional buildup, something that I feel is best expressed by the phrase &quot;fuck that&quot;.

But of course, my apologies if the language offends anyone.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I guess because the idea that my rational consciousness is <em>absolutely</em> sealed away from the root of my soul makes me very angry.  It seems to be a fairly accurate description of a problem I&#8217;ve been struggling with most of my life.  Since I was a kid, I sort of automatically absorbed an acceptance of this, but now as an adult, I both intuit and (more or less) logically can figure out that this is NOT true.  And it makes me angry that I have all this previous programming that I have to break through in order to experience something that I <em>know</em> to already be true.</p>
<p>The anger gives rise to a highly emotional buildup, something that I feel is best expressed by the phrase &#8220;fuck that&#8221;.</p>
<p>But of course, my apologies if the language offends anyone.</p>
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		<title>By: Anne</title>
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		<dc:creator>Anne</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Feb 2010 12:25:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Why did you write &quot;and I say fuck that&quot;? (not the sentiment but the language used)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Why did you write &#8220;and I say fuck that&#8221;? (not the sentiment but the language used)</p>
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		<title>By: Ian</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ian</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 20 Jul 2009 12:09:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Maybe cause &lt;em&gt;we&#039;re&lt;/em&gt; scared...   We understand all that stuff, but we don&#039; have any idea what it &lt;em&gt;means&lt;/em&gt; yet.  And we just keep plugging ahead, maybe thinking that meaning&#039;s not important, or maybe thinking it&#039;ll just pop up on it&#039;s own.  That&#039;s what all these end of the world/rapturesque scenarios are.  Things stop changing, and we finally have a new meaning to rest everything on...  But who&#039;s to say if meaning&#039;s ever going to be there unless we go looking for it?  It&#039;s something we need to consciously put into our actions, otherwise it&#039;s not there.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Maybe cause <em>we&#8217;re</em> scared&#8230;   We understand all that stuff, but we don&#8217; have any idea what it <em>means</em> yet.  And we just keep plugging ahead, maybe thinking that meaning&#8217;s not important, or maybe thinking it&#8217;ll just pop up on it&#8217;s own.  That&#8217;s what all these end of the world/rapturesque scenarios are.  Things stop changing, and we finally have a new meaning to rest everything on&#8230;  But who&#8217;s to say if meaning&#8217;s ever going to be there unless we go looking for it?  It&#8217;s something we need to consciously put into our actions, otherwise it&#8217;s not there.</p>
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		<title>By: speedbird</title>
		<link>http://www.reclusland.com/compass/2009/06/12/transactional-analysis/comment-page-1/#comment-4296</link>
		<dc:creator>speedbird</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 20 Jul 2009 10:56:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Course it could just be that &#039;What Things Really Are&#039; is actually for the most part *Really Scary*. Cities and Jet engines and Quantum Mechanics and The Bomb and such like. Stuff which graduates to the level of having a True Name, the kind people do Magic(k) with, is generally not to be pissed about with.

I used to say quite a lot that a lot of the wonders in the world were /hiding/ from us, and that they were hiding because they were scared.

Maybe They are We, and We are hiding.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Course it could just be that &#8216;What Things Really Are&#8217; is actually for the most part *Really Scary*. Cities and Jet engines and Quantum Mechanics and The Bomb and such like. Stuff which graduates to the level of having a True Name, the kind people do Magic(k) with, is generally not to be pissed about with.</p>
<p>I used to say quite a lot that a lot of the wonders in the world were /hiding/ from us, and that they were hiding because they were scared.</p>
<p>Maybe They are We, and We are hiding.</p>
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		<title>By: Ian</title>
		<link>http://www.reclusland.com/compass/2009/06/12/transactional-analysis/comment-page-1/#comment-4291</link>
		<dc:creator>Ian</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 20 Jul 2009 00:41:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I gotcha.  Yeah, there&#039;s a lot of truth in what you say.  The desire to be other than we are, or to define something as &quot;like this other thing you already know about&quot;.

Basically, it seems like it&#039;s all just an excuse to stop thinking, to stop growing.

But we already &lt;em&gt;are &lt;/em&gt;what we are, and we already &lt;em&gt;are &lt;/em&gt;always growing.  So it&#039;s all a big waste of time to pretend otherwise, eh?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I gotcha.  Yeah, there&#8217;s a lot of truth in what you say.  The desire to be other than we are, or to define something as &#8220;like this other thing you already know about&#8221;.</p>
<p>Basically, it seems like it&#8217;s all just an excuse to stop thinking, to stop growing.</p>
<p>But we already <em>are </em>what we are, and we already <em>are </em>always growing.  So it&#8217;s all a big waste of time to pretend otherwise, eh?</p>
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		<title>By: speedbird</title>
		<link>http://www.reclusland.com/compass/2009/06/12/transactional-analysis/comment-page-1/#comment-4264</link>
		<dc:creator>speedbird</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 17 Jul 2009 09:32:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Er... yeah, I guess that was a bit cryptic. :-)

By &#039;spirit&#039; I mean an actual technology that&#039;s not just a creation of the advertisers, that has a Name and approximates to some sort of higher truth. A path that takes us somewhere useful, a useful way-of-seeing.

The Computer is probably one of these.

So there&#039;s a /massive/ industry out there dedicated to making computers look like as many other things as possible. Like desktops and offices. Like musical instruments. Like brains and people. But actually a computer isn&#039;t any of these things in itself. Where&#039;s the drive for computers to become all they can be? Sorely lacking in my opinion. Stopped shortly after Mandelbrot took Picasso&#039;s line for a walk in a fractional dimension. Instead there&#039;s just creeping onionism, layers of lagging, and increasing heat.

It goes beyond that too to cars with hidden engines, which look like washing machines. In fact everything seems to look like a washing machine these days. (Use New Formula Moonie, washes brains whiter! ... as the guys from Spitting Image once said) And beyond washing machines to the drive we all feel to be what we&#039;re not. Hence &#039;spirit&#039; as a catch-all term.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Er&#8230; yeah, I guess that was a bit cryptic. :-)</p>
<p>By &#8216;spirit&#8217; I mean an actual technology that&#8217;s not just a creation of the advertisers, that has a Name and approximates to some sort of higher truth. A path that takes us somewhere useful, a useful way-of-seeing.</p>
<p>The Computer is probably one of these.</p>
<p>So there&#8217;s a /massive/ industry out there dedicated to making computers look like as many other things as possible. Like desktops and offices. Like musical instruments. Like brains and people. But actually a computer isn&#8217;t any of these things in itself. Where&#8217;s the drive for computers to become all they can be? Sorely lacking in my opinion. Stopped shortly after Mandelbrot took Picasso&#8217;s line for a walk in a fractional dimension. Instead there&#8217;s just creeping onionism, layers of lagging, and increasing heat.</p>
<p>It goes beyond that too to cars with hidden engines, which look like washing machines. In fact everything seems to look like a washing machine these days. (Use New Formula Moonie, washes brains whiter! &#8230; as the guys from Spitting Image once said) And beyond washing machines to the drive we all feel to be what we&#8217;re not. Hence &#8216;spirit&#8217; as a catch-all term.</p>
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		<title>By: Ian</title>
		<link>http://www.reclusland.com/compass/2009/06/12/transactional-analysis/comment-page-1/#comment-4253</link>
		<dc:creator>Ian</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 16 Jul 2009 16:57:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;blockquote&gt;See what things are (cool) not what they’re trying to look like (hot).&lt;/blockquote&gt;

This is great.

&lt;blockquote&gt;There’s this (twisted) idea out there that a spirit will only be accepted if it looks like something it’s not.&lt;/blockquote&gt;

This sounds interesting too, but I&#039;m not sure I completely understand.  Can you help to explain  it a little?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<blockquote><p>See what things are (cool) not what they’re trying to look like (hot).</p></blockquote>
<p>This is great.</p>
<blockquote><p>There’s this (twisted) idea out there that a spirit will only be accepted if it looks like something it’s not.</p></blockquote>
<p>This sounds interesting too, but I&#8217;m not sure I completely understand.  Can you help to explain  it a little?</p>
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		<title>By: speedbird</title>
		<link>http://www.reclusland.com/compass/2009/06/12/transactional-analysis/comment-page-1/#comment-4250</link>
		<dc:creator>speedbird</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 16 Jul 2009 13:30:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&gt; How do we switch from seeing the world as a hot media to seeing it as a cold media?

Maybe we just have to go out and do the seeing. See what things are (cool) not what they&#039;re trying to look like (hot).

There&#039;s this (twisted) idea out there that a spirit will only be accepted if it looks like something it&#039;s not.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&gt; How do we switch from seeing the world as a hot media to seeing it as a cold media?</p>
<p>Maybe we just have to go out and do the seeing. See what things are (cool) not what they&#8217;re trying to look like (hot).</p>
<p>There&#8217;s this (twisted) idea out there that a spirit will only be accepted if it looks like something it&#8217;s not.</p>
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		<title>By: Ian</title>
		<link>http://www.reclusland.com/compass/2009/06/12/transactional-analysis/comment-page-1/#comment-4175</link>
		<dc:creator>Ian</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 12 Jul 2009 21:15:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>put up with = put to sleep by

yeah, I like the curve you&#039;re outlining here.  cool and participatory -&gt; -&gt; -&gt; hot and taken-care-of-for-you (wholesale).  But is that something due to the media itself, or is it just the way the media has adapted to those how use it?

How do we switch from seeing the world as a hot media to seeing it as a cold media?  This is what we were talking about earlier in regards to each generation needing to relearn how to do things.  And the fact that as societies develop, people seem to be less willing to maintain their underpinnings, perhaps because of the difficulty getting to them.  Or possibly just the perceived difficulty, but that makes little difference as far as people actually doing anything.  Perhaps these things have life cycles, just like anything else.  &quot;All conditioned things pass away&quot;.  So to, therefore, must all mediated things...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>put up with = put to sleep by</p>
<p>yeah, I like the curve you&#8217;re outlining here.  cool and participatory -&gt; -&gt; -&gt; hot and taken-care-of-for-you (wholesale).  But is that something due to the media itself, or is it just the way the media has adapted to those how use it?</p>
<p>How do we switch from seeing the world as a hot media to seeing it as a cold media?  This is what we were talking about earlier in regards to each generation needing to relearn how to do things.  And the fact that as societies develop, people seem to be less willing to maintain their underpinnings, perhaps because of the difficulty getting to them.  Or possibly just the perceived difficulty, but that makes little difference as far as people actually doing anything.  Perhaps these things have life cycles, just like anything else.  &#8220;All conditioned things pass away&#8221;.  So to, therefore, must all mediated things&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: speedbird</title>
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		<dc:creator>speedbird</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 12 Jul 2009 19:41:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Indeed...

An involving technology has an element of the self-contained about it. I get out what I put in, to a degree. The opposite is exemplified by the principle of constant remote updates of my computer system. There&#039;s nothing to get involved with, cos the rules are constantly being changed from afar. All I can do is watch and put up with it.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Indeed&#8230;</p>
<p>An involving technology has an element of the self-contained about it. I get out what I put in, to a degree. The opposite is exemplified by the principle of constant remote updates of my computer system. There&#8217;s nothing to get involved with, cos the rules are constantly being changed from afar. All I can do is watch and put up with it.</p>
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		<title>By: Ian</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ian</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Jul 2009 02:29:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yeah, society as a whole seems to be tending that way...  But why do our attention and our involvement not equal the same thing?  Seems like they don&#039;t, but that maybe they should...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yeah, society as a whole seems to be tending that way&#8230;  But why do our attention and our involvement not equal the same thing?  Seems like they don&#8217;t, but that maybe they should&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: speedbird</title>
		<link>http://www.reclusland.com/compass/2009/06/12/transactional-analysis/comment-page-1/#comment-3858</link>
		<dc:creator>speedbird</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 04 Jul 2009 14:16:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think it&#039;s like the difference between /attention/ and /involvement/. I attend to my computer all the time, but it&#039;s rare that it /involves/ me. All current trends in machine design seem to lead away from involvement.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think it&#8217;s like the difference between /attention/ and /involvement/. I attend to my computer all the time, but it&#8217;s rare that it /involves/ me. All current trends in machine design seem to lead away from involvement.</p>
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		<title>By: Ian</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ian</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Jul 2009 16:06:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;blockquote&gt;It’s more like a cool medium /creates/ awareness, drags the mind into an aware state, whereas a hot medium /destroys/ awareness and indeed will function without it.&lt;/blockquote&gt;

In that case, it&#039;s almost like the difference between the two is that as the media heats up, it creates more friction, and something has to give for the two to operate smoothly (and cooly) again...

&lt;blockquote&gt;Occasionally, though, true cool comes along. I’m sure there’s something we can do to help crystallise the situation, I’m just not sure what.&lt;/blockquote&gt;

Yeah, I&#039;m with you there...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<blockquote><p>It’s more like a cool medium /creates/ awareness, drags the mind into an aware state, whereas a hot medium /destroys/ awareness and indeed will function without it.</p></blockquote>
<p>In that case, it&#8217;s almost like the difference between the two is that as the media heats up, it creates more friction, and something has to give for the two to operate smoothly (and cooly) again&#8230;</p>
<blockquote><p>Occasionally, though, true cool comes along. I’m sure there’s something we can do to help crystallise the situation, I’m just not sure what.</p></blockquote>
<p>Yeah, I&#8217;m with you there&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: speedbird</title>
		<link>http://www.reclusland.com/compass/2009/06/12/transactional-analysis/comment-page-1/#comment-3820</link>
		<dc:creator>speedbird</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Jul 2009 08:14:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&gt; no difference between “me” and “that thing over there”

McLuhan writes about Narcissus and how people often think that Narcissus fell in love with his reflection because he thought it was Narcissus. In fact, the point of the myth is that Narcissus didn&#039;t realise that his reflection in the mirror was himself. Similarly, we don&#039;t in general realise that technologies are extensions of ourselves, and falsely fall in love with them.

&gt; Cool media, as I’m coming to understand it, is something that invades awareness

This is very interesting and I think you&#039;ve hit upon something here. Had to read that a few times to take it in! But I&#039;m not sure about &#039;invades&#039; exactly. It&#039;s more like a cool medium /creates/ awareness, drags the mind into an aware state, whereas a hot medium /destroys/ awareness and indeed will function without it.

&gt; Computers in a “hot” state

I get the feeling that the &#039;break boundary&#039; where hot flips to cool is of critical importance. It amounts to understanding, realisation, amid an increasing sea of neutral symbols. A cool medium is truly iconic and cannot be broken down into its parts without destroying it. Branding is largely an exercize in attempting to fake iconic coolness in an overheated world. Occasionally, though, true cool comes along. I&#039;m sure there&#039;s something we can do to help crystallise the situation, I&#039;m just not sure what.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&gt; no difference between “me” and “that thing over there”</p>
<p>McLuhan writes about Narcissus and how people often think that Narcissus fell in love with his reflection because he thought it was Narcissus. In fact, the point of the myth is that Narcissus didn&#8217;t realise that his reflection in the mirror was himself. Similarly, we don&#8217;t in general realise that technologies are extensions of ourselves, and falsely fall in love with them.</p>
<p>&gt; Cool media, as I’m coming to understand it, is something that invades awareness</p>
<p>This is very interesting and I think you&#8217;ve hit upon something here. Had to read that a few times to take it in! But I&#8217;m not sure about &#8216;invades&#8217; exactly. It&#8217;s more like a cool medium /creates/ awareness, drags the mind into an aware state, whereas a hot medium /destroys/ awareness and indeed will function without it.</p>
<p>&gt; Computers in a “hot” state</p>
<p>I get the feeling that the &#8216;break boundary&#8217; where hot flips to cool is of critical importance. It amounts to understanding, realisation, amid an increasing sea of neutral symbols. A cool medium is truly iconic and cannot be broken down into its parts without destroying it. Branding is largely an exercize in attempting to fake iconic coolness in an overheated world. Occasionally, though, true cool comes along. I&#8217;m sure there&#8217;s something we can do to help crystallise the situation, I&#8217;m just not sure what.</p>
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		<title>By: Ian</title>
		<link>http://www.reclusland.com/compass/2009/06/12/transactional-analysis/comment-page-1/#comment-3791</link>
		<dc:creator>Ian</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Jul 2009 16:58:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Anyway, participation mystique is, from that definition I linked to, a situation where the boundary that separates the self and an object completely breaks down.  It&#039;s where there is no difference between &quot;me&quot; and &quot;that thing over there&quot;.  Which does sound very similar to &quot;cool&quot; media.

Cool media, as I&#039;m coming to understand it, is something that invades awareness, because it requires that awareness in order for the message it carries to become present.  In this sense, the boundary between &quot;self&quot; and &quot;other&quot; definitely breaks down (maybe not completely, but still).  

Whereas in &quot;hot&quot; media, the message can exist even without the awareness&#039;s involvement.

I like the idea because it suggests that in cool, less &quot;developed&quot; media, awareness must be given to the media for the message to be brought into being.  Whereas hot media does not require as much awareness &lt;em&gt;in order to be functional&lt;/em&gt;.

And it also make awareness something that settles over/into media, almost like a fog.  In cool media, the media doesn&#039;t communicate until the awareness gets into it, whereas &quot;hot&quot; media communicates regardless of how much &quot;fog&quot; it has.

Computers in a &quot;hot&quot; state...  Yeah, too much heat and it might eventually not need us at all any more, which I guess if what the Singularity is all about.  We want to get back in there, but we can&#039;t, yet.  Maybe that Ubiquitous Computing stuff or Augmented Reality stuff will &quot;cool&quot; things down a bit...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Anyway, participation mystique is, from that definition I linked to, a situation where the boundary that separates the self and an object completely breaks down.  It&#8217;s where there is no difference between &#8220;me&#8221; and &#8220;that thing over there&#8221;.  Which does sound very similar to &#8220;cool&#8221; media.</p>
<p>Cool media, as I&#8217;m coming to understand it, is something that invades awareness, because it requires that awareness in order for the message it carries to become present.  In this sense, the boundary between &#8220;self&#8221; and &#8220;other&#8221; definitely breaks down (maybe not completely, but still).  </p>
<p>Whereas in &#8220;hot&#8221; media, the message can exist even without the awareness&#8217;s involvement.</p>
<p>I like the idea because it suggests that in cool, less &#8220;developed&#8221; media, awareness must be given to the media for the message to be brought into being.  Whereas hot media does not require as much awareness <em>in order to be functional</em>.</p>
<p>And it also make awareness something that settles over/into media, almost like a fog.  In cool media, the media doesn&#8217;t communicate until the awareness gets into it, whereas &#8220;hot&#8221; media communicates regardless of how much &#8220;fog&#8221; it has.</p>
<p>Computers in a &#8220;hot&#8221; state&#8230;  Yeah, too much heat and it might eventually not need us at all any more, which I guess if what the Singularity is all about.  We want to get back in there, but we can&#8217;t, yet.  Maybe that Ubiquitous Computing stuff or Augmented Reality stuff will &#8220;cool&#8221; things down a bit&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Ian</title>
		<link>http://www.reclusland.com/compass/2009/06/12/transactional-analysis/comment-page-1/#comment-3781</link>
		<dc:creator>Ian</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Jul 2009 11:37:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Ill respond with more later, but I just found this:

http://stumblinghorse.tumblr.com/post/133977987/it-was-an-effort-to-systematize-inner-thought

which I wanted to make a note of for later.

&lt;em&gt;&quot;viewing objects as extensions of our subjective self&quot;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ill respond with more later, but I just found this:</p>
<p><a href="http://stumblinghorse.tumblr.com/post/133977987/it-was-an-effort-to-systematize-inner-thought" rel="nofollow">http://stumblinghorse.tumblr.com/post/133977987/it-was-an-effort-to-systematize-inner-thought</a></p>
<p>which I wanted to make a note of for later.</p>
<p><em>&#8220;viewing objects as extensions of our subjective self&#8221;</em></p>
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		<title>By: speedbird</title>
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		<dc:creator>speedbird</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Jul 2009 08:50:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Perhaps I don&#039;t really understand participation mystique!...

As I understand McLuhan:

A cool medium demands complete involvement from those involved with it, irrespective of whether they want to be completely involved or not. McLuhan says this sort of technology is what unites people as a tribe.

A hot medium has higher definition and information content than a cool medium, but in return can exist in the background, or as an object of study without involvement in depth. This is the kind of technology that advancing civilizations tend to produce.

McLuhan proposes that a sufficiently overheated medium can suddenly &#039;flip&#039; to become something entirely new and cool once again.

*

This DJ played all those songs that you have to know the moves to. It was terrible, there was never more than half-a-dozen people up at once, zero participation. I found myself getting quite annoyed. Give me dance-round-the-handbag music any day ;-D

It struck me that this exclusive/excluding kind of music was a &#039;hot&#039; form of disco, and that it wasn&#039;t a good thing. Somehow the guy couldn&#039;t elevate it to the level of being cool to do the Macarena. I don&#039;t fully understand what was happening, but it seemed really important.

I have this idea floating round my head that computers have been stuck in this &#039;hot&#039; state since about 1987, and that&#039;s why the world is crying out for a Singularity to save us. I don&#039;t know why and I don&#039;t know how, but that&#039;s how it&#039;s looking from over here. It&#039;s weird...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Perhaps I don&#8217;t really understand participation mystique!&#8230;</p>
<p>As I understand McLuhan:</p>
<p>A cool medium demands complete involvement from those involved with it, irrespective of whether they want to be completely involved or not. McLuhan says this sort of technology is what unites people as a tribe.</p>
<p>A hot medium has higher definition and information content than a cool medium, but in return can exist in the background, or as an object of study without involvement in depth. This is the kind of technology that advancing civilizations tend to produce.</p>
<p>McLuhan proposes that a sufficiently overheated medium can suddenly &#8216;flip&#8217; to become something entirely new and cool once again.</p>
<p>*</p>
<p>This DJ played all those songs that you have to know the moves to. It was terrible, there was never more than half-a-dozen people up at once, zero participation. I found myself getting quite annoyed. Give me dance-round-the-handbag music any day ;-D</p>
<p>It struck me that this exclusive/excluding kind of music was a &#8216;hot&#8217; form of disco, and that it wasn&#8217;t a good thing. Somehow the guy couldn&#8217;t elevate it to the level of being cool to do the Macarena. I don&#8217;t fully understand what was happening, but it seemed really important.</p>
<p>I have this idea floating round my head that computers have been stuck in this &#8216;hot&#8217; state since about 1987, and that&#8217;s why the world is crying out for a Singularity to save us. I don&#8217;t know why and I don&#8217;t know how, but that&#8217;s how it&#8217;s looking from over here. It&#8217;s weird&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Ian</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ian</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Jul 2009 11:14:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Is there any such thing as &lt;em&gt;good &lt;/em&gt;wedding disco?  ;)

I&#039;m not sure I&#039;d say &quot;cool&quot; media = participation mystique, wouldn&#039;t &quot;hot&quot; media be the closer of the two?  Maybe I still don&#039;t quite grasp the concepts well enough though.

I would say that &quot;hot&quot; media is more a participation mystique, because it more directly involved the awareness with the media content.  That is, the connection is stronger, less resistance in the wires, and the message comes through clearly.

But is is that the boundaries in &quot;cool&quot; media are more permeable?  That the self-awareness must become more intimate with the media/message in order to understand it fully?  In that case, I can definitely see how it would be more like a participation mystique.  It&#039;s as if &quot;hot&quot; media, by being so focused, doesn&#039;t allow the awareness to forget that it is there.  

In the directness of its communication, it is that much harder to forget that it is separate from your own awareness?

I think the TA states, and TA in general, is very McLuhan friendly field.  I both cases, one is analyzing the pure awareness and it&#039;s ways of interacting/mediating with, the world and other people.  

If you&#039;d care to go more into how you think they&#039;re tied together, I&#039;d love to hear your thoughts on it.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Is there any such thing as <em>good </em>wedding disco?  ;)</p>
<p>I&#8217;m not sure I&#8217;d say &#8220;cool&#8221; media = participation mystique, wouldn&#8217;t &#8220;hot&#8221; media be the closer of the two?  Maybe I still don&#8217;t quite grasp the concepts well enough though.</p>
<p>I would say that &#8220;hot&#8221; media is more a participation mystique, because it more directly involved the awareness with the media content.  That is, the connection is stronger, less resistance in the wires, and the message comes through clearly.</p>
<p>But is is that the boundaries in &#8220;cool&#8221; media are more permeable?  That the self-awareness must become more intimate with the media/message in order to understand it fully?  In that case, I can definitely see how it would be more like a participation mystique.  It&#8217;s as if &#8220;hot&#8221; media, by being so focused, doesn&#8217;t allow the awareness to forget that it is there.  </p>
<p>In the directness of its communication, it is that much harder to forget that it is separate from your own awareness?</p>
<p>I think the TA states, and TA in general, is very McLuhan friendly field.  I both cases, one is analyzing the pure awareness and it&#8217;s ways of interacting/mediating with, the world and other people.  </p>
<p>If you&#8217;d care to go more into how you think they&#8217;re tied together, I&#8217;d love to hear your thoughts on it.</p>
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		<title>By: speedbird</title>
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		<dc:creator>speedbird</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 29 Jun 2009 09:43:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Two bottles of wine on Saturday, and the worst wedding disco in recorded history, have somehow conspired to make a new link in my mind here.
It occurs to me that the TA States are somehow tied up with McLuhan&#039;s &#039;hot&#039; and &#039;cool&#039; media. In fact, re-reading the post, &#039;Participation Mystique&#039; now sounds /exactly/ like what McLuhan wrote about &#039;cool&#039; media...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Two bottles of wine on Saturday, and the worst wedding disco in recorded history, have somehow conspired to make a new link in my mind here.<br />
It occurs to me that the TA States are somehow tied up with McLuhan&#8217;s &#8216;hot&#8217; and &#8216;cool&#8217; media. In fact, re-reading the post, &#8216;Participation Mystique&#8217; now sounds /exactly/ like what McLuhan wrote about &#8216;cool&#8217; media&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Ian</title>
		<link>http://www.reclusland.com/compass/2009/06/12/transactional-analysis/comment-page-1/#comment-3265</link>
		<dc:creator>Ian</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 16 Jun 2009 17:59:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The thing with Frued is that he very much did not trust the sub/unconscious drives, and so needed an ego to &quot;civilize&quot; them, so to speak.  My point is that this sort of thinking just drives the wedge between the two deeper, rather than doing anything to heal that rift or set up a more mutually beneficial relationship.

That&#039;s spot on about the Zen lineage obsession (the same&#039;s true for martial arts masters as well).  Does anyone &lt;em&gt;really &lt;/em&gt;think that there were only 82 generations between the present day and Buddha?  No one who spends the time to actually think about it, that&#039;s for sure.  But that&#039;s not the point.  The point is that you have become part of a living tradition that can pass on things in that direct person-to-person fashion.  That the teachings (be they zen, kung fu, or music) come from a tradition that is larger than the original person, and that is still alive.  Not an entity per-se, or even an organizing principle.  Just a way of doing things that works.

The internet is, I think, really a force for good, in the end.  It&#039;s basically just an amplifier, of thoughts, cultures, memes, ideas.  There&#039;s a truth buried in that old &quot;series of tubes&quot; joke as well, I think.

&lt;blockquote&gt;you /can’t/ change anyone’s mind; you can only show them things to think about (Adult) and help them realise how they feel (Parent/Child)…&lt;/blockquote&gt;

I&#039;ve heard it said that, really, the teacher has nothing to give, and the student nothing to take.  &quot;Selling water by the riverside...&quot;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The thing with Frued is that he very much did not trust the sub/unconscious drives, and so needed an ego to &#8220;civilize&#8221; them, so to speak.  My point is that this sort of thinking just drives the wedge between the two deeper, rather than doing anything to heal that rift or set up a more mutually beneficial relationship.</p>
<p>That&#8217;s spot on about the Zen lineage obsession (the same&#8217;s true for martial arts masters as well).  Does anyone <em>really </em>think that there were only 82 generations between the present day and Buddha?  No one who spends the time to actually think about it, that&#8217;s for sure.  But that&#8217;s not the point.  The point is that you have become part of a living tradition that can pass on things in that direct person-to-person fashion.  That the teachings (be they zen, kung fu, or music) come from a tradition that is larger than the original person, and that is still alive.  Not an entity per-se, or even an organizing principle.  Just a way of doing things that works.</p>
<p>The internet is, I think, really a force for good, in the end.  It&#8217;s basically just an amplifier, of thoughts, cultures, memes, ideas.  There&#8217;s a truth buried in that old &#8220;series of tubes&#8221; joke as well, I think.</p>
<blockquote><p>you /can’t/ change anyone’s mind; you can only show them things to think about (Adult) and help them realise how they feel (Parent/Child)…</p></blockquote>
<p>I&#8217;ve heard it said that, really, the teacher has nothing to give, and the student nothing to take.  &#8220;Selling water by the riverside&#8230;&#8221;</p>
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		<title>By: speedbird</title>
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		<dc:creator>speedbird</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 16 Jun 2009 10:26:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Huh, &#039;changing minds&#039;, didn&#039;t notice that! (last comment for the mo, honest!) Of course, that&#039;s a trick question; from the point of view of TA (and Argyris&#039; &#039;Action Science&#039;), you /can&#039;t/ change anyone&#039;s mind; you can only show them things to think about (Adult) and help them realise how they feel (Parent/Child)...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Huh, &#8216;changing minds&#8217;, didn&#8217;t notice that! (last comment for the mo, honest!) Of course, that&#8217;s a trick question; from the point of view of TA (and Argyris&#8217; &#8216;Action Science&#8217;), you /can&#8217;t/ change anyone&#8217;s mind; you can only show them things to think about (Adult) and help them realise how they feel (Parent/Child)&#8230;</p>
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